Twitter

02/03/21

Retweetd From NSPCC

Going back to school can be difficult for some children. It can help to get into a good routine before term starts. We've got tips on getting into a back-to-school routine and more advice on supporting children with school: https://t.co/U3OdpVq0tC https://t.co/XUL8NtrRq9

10/02/21

What time would it be now? https://t.co/TOiKE2ZxW5

10/02/21

Can you solve our today? https://t.co/jpd2UZjFbO

09/02/21

It is time for Monday afternoon's maths teaser ! https://t.co/fd5fdO5q5f

09/02/21

An interesting Monday morning ! https://t.co/GrrS8moPFJ

05/02/21

Another day means another fun . What position are you in? https://t.co/PrlO46PGTF

05/02/21

Time to end the week with another maths teaser! https://t.co/0gHQD1wUbu

04/02/21

Another interesting for you to solve this afternoon! https://t.co/sLG6r8wyb6

04/02/21

Lets start your Thursday morning off with another maths teaser! https://t.co/V3L9lAEkKj

03/02/21

Can you solve our this afternoon? https://t.co/j9npMDxSoi

03/02/21

How many 9s are there between 1 and 100? https://t.co/ufRpyxHYrJ

02/02/21

We have a little riddle for todays - can you work it out? https://t.co/19Vu6C9dHc

02/02/21

An interesting maths teaser this morning! What is the number? https://t.co/ucG6UnvLzE

01/02/21

Its time for Monday morning maths teaser! Can you work out the answer? https://t.co/V8ze9pA5hh

29/01/21

Lets end the week with another . What am I? https://t.co/OzLUsoUFbF

28/01/21

Another Maths Teaser for you all! Let us know what you think the answer is! https://t.co/6pfysqCqNU

28/01/21

Can you solve our this morning? What direction was Jason pointing? https://t.co/iu14rQ82Ao

27/01/21

An interesting Maths Teaser this afternoon. Can you solve it? https://t.co/83OzATQ7AB

27/01/21

Here is Wednesday's morning ! How many? https://t.co/U0GrLOjtGh

26/01/21

Correct!

Harris Academies
All Academies in our Federation aim to transform the lives of the students they serve by bringing about rapid improvement in examination results, personal development and aspiration.

Central Office

Bexley

Bromley

Clapham

Croydon

Greenwich

Haringey

Havering

Merton

Newham

Southwark

Sutton

Thurrock

Wandsworth

Westminster

In Giving We Receive

Dr kathy weston logo

 

 

 

Reflect -

Parenting often means living in a state of constant emotional ambivalence. In England, pupils returned to school last week. Many parents may have dropped off children rather enthusiastically, only to return home to a disturbing domestic silence.

No longer will our days be punctuated by shout-outs for technical assistance, requests for mid-morning snacks or help with classwork. Instead, many of our children have returned to the cut and thrust of the school day; the ritualistic movement between classes, cheerful interaction with their peers and school staff, school assemblies and the familiar sights, sounds and smells of school buildings. Mental health researchers are anticipating a positive impact on both parent and child wellbeing and that is a truly exciting prospect. 

After the excitement and strangeness of the first week back, Mothering Sunday highlighted some discrepancy in the approach to acts of kindness in my family. My youngest created an origami butterfly and listed all the ways in which he feels supported by me, penned within a homemade card. My older teen purchased a card that seemed to imply maternal dependency on chocolate and wine; his offering was tinged with affectionate mockery, though it was still welcome! 

Motivate -

Whilst Mother’s Day is arguably a commercial invention designed to drive card sales, celebratory days do give us an opportunity to be thoughtful. A big part of parenting involves, or should involve, instruction around the importance of kindness.

I interviewed researcher Dr Jess Datu earlier this week, whose work at Hong Kong University focuses on the importance of teaching kindness. I learnt that kindness isn’t just a simple act of giving to another person; it can also have far reaching psychological and social consequences for the giver. Kindness can smooth relationships, boost physical health and wellbeing and cultivate positive emotions in others.

Parents and teachers consider kindness to be one of the virtues that they hope children will develop (Seligman, et al, 2009), but we should also recognise that we can actively and purposefully help them to cultivate it. One of the most powerful, evidence-based actions that we can adopt at home or in school is ‘counting’ acts of kindness by creating a list of ideas and ticking them off as we perform them. Consider supplementing this activity by encouraging children to reflect on how being kind makes them feel and what they have learned about themselves in the process. Altruism is one of the greatest levers for boosting children’s self-esteem, so why not turn kindness into an everyday habit within your family life? 

Schools can go further, by creating a ‘kindness curriculum’. Perhaps this could increase the attention given to kindness as an overarching theme, across all subject areas. Or, in its simplest form, it could simply mean routinely and specifically rewarding acts of kindness. Classrooms could have a voting box where pupils can report acts of kindness by classmates (and perhaps also by adults within the school), turning kindness into a highly valued social act that generates peer praise. 

It is worth remembering that acts of kindness take place both off and online; a fact that is shaping an emerging interest in kindness-based media literacy programmes in schools, where young people are taught about the benefits of being kind online and to anticipate the consequences of online actions. 

Support -

Yesterday, it was Young Carers Action Day; a day which celebrates the extraordinary acts of kindness and care demonstrated by children who look after others in their families.

Research carried out by the University of Nottingham and the BBC in 2018 found that as many as 800,000 secondary school children in the UK carry out caring duties, with 32% of these providing a significant level of care. These children are highly skilled and resourceful, a fact that they are encouraged to reflect on within these resources, which are designed to get young carers to note down and track their caring responsibilities, take pride in them and see them as prized employability skills.

A quarter of young carers said they were bullied at schools because of their caring role (Carers Trust, 2013), so again, there are opportunities here to increase support for children in caring roles across schools and to encourage our own children to be sensitive to the often invisible challenges faced by their peers.

Foster a culture at home where your children notice kindness. When your child is kind, catch them in the act and praise them. When you are chatting, encourage them to reflect on what kind things they have done that day for friends, family, teachers, strangers or animals, probably without even realising it. Model kind behaviour to others and also to yourself. As Maurice Elias, Professor of Psychology at Rutgers University, says, ‘kindness can be taught, and it is a defining aspect of civilised human life. It belongs in every home, school, neighbourhood, and society’.

Kathy plus signature f39edcc8 0f8c 4832 9f1c ab750cbc7062